Friday, February 26, 2010

A Case of the "So Called' Ex

A year later, six months later, here they go again.....

Thanks to my new found outlook I'm quick to hit you with that *Kanye Shrug* and a *Blank Stare* simply because of the fact that I don't allow myself to give too much of a damn nowadays. I've been through my struggles of dealing with failed attempts at relationships, and even hurt a few feelings along the way. While I do apologize, I will never regret it. But lately I have been plagued with the case of the Exes in a major way. It seems like everybody who I tried with only for them to turn around and play me wants to come back around and have some sort of delusional friendship now. Like six months ago you were just ignoring my phone calls because you were to chicken to try something different.

I know it sounds like I'm venting but I swear I have a point to this.....

Wise people tell me constantly that Hindsight is 20/20 and I will believe that to the death. Think about it. Every single situation you ever have been through, I guarantee that you can look back at it and at least find one thing you would do differently. There's nothing wrong with that. You can, however, be conscious of the situation and understand that unless you want to live with regrets, you make sure you do what you feel is right and be ready to deal with the consequences. It's not the fact that these people want to make an appearance back into my life now. I mean, after all, it IS me! Who wouldn't want to be in my life?? (conceited moment of the day) Where my problem in all this lies is when they do make the contact, they not ready to deal with my reaction to it. I'm in a very good place right now and I love my life just the way it is. I don't need any more fairweather friends, I have enough real ones.You made your decision, you had your chance. I commend you for wanting to be in contact with me. Just don't expect me to accept your advances and don't be upset when I don't.

"My life is a one-way street. I only move forward, and I only look back to see where I came from. Not because I want to go back there." -@JeanChristos

Good Day....

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